Wednesday, February 2, 2011

We Have Some Sad News

My dear bloggy friends,

My husband's brother passed away Tuesday morning.  

He has been ill for a long time and I know he is not in pain now, but we still hate to lose him.  

He was a marvelous guitar player and we would all have the best sing-a-longs with him and the entire family.  He was a wonderful uncle to Baby Bee and a good friend to me.  I know my husband looked up to him and felt very close to him.  He is ten years older than my husband (who is the baby in the family) and he lived at home with my Worker Bee the longest.  He was a powerful influence on my husband.  He loved his family and his brothers.  He loved God and he loved his church and he loved to play music in his church band.  He loved fishing too.  He leaves behind his wife, his son, and his daughter.  He also leaves behind an extended family that loved him very much.

The tears are falling as I write this because how do you show how much you loved and appreciated someone?  How can I show you the expressions on his face that would always crack me up?  How can you see the joy that radiated from him when he was playing the guitar and the boys were all singing together?  

I can't I guess, but I can let you know a little about him and let you know how much we will miss him.

Thank you for stopping by.

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  1. DebbyFebruary 2, 2011 at 1:15 PM

    Sorry. It is so hard to loose someone so special. (((((HUGS))))

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  2. BethanyFebruary 2, 2011 at 1:19 PM

    Ohhh, I'm so sorry to hear that :(
    Sending you a hug...
    Bethany
    the other Sweet Bee :)

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  3. ★Carol★February 2, 2011 at 1:21 PM

    Janelle, I'm so very sorry, and you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. How do you show how much you loved and appreciated someone? I think you just did, in a very moving tribute to your brother-in-law. It sounds like he was a very good man.
    Hugs,
    Carol

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  4. UnknownFebruary 2, 2011 at 1:27 PM

    I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your brother-in-law. He sounded like quite a gem of a guy....he will be greatly missed by all who loved him. I pray for your family...may you be comforted by your memories and the hope of eternity.

    Blessings!
    Gail

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  5. DonnaFebruary 2, 2011 at 1:28 PM

    I am so sorry to hear this. Do remember that he is no longer ill and you will all be reunited again one day.
    Praying for you and your family.
    Big HUGS!
    Donna

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  6. GaylaFebruary 2, 2011 at 1:30 PM

    I am very sad to hear your sad news. I know life on this earth is not eternal, and the future one is... but this hurts so much right now. Love and prayers. He sounds very special and he probably knew he was very loved.

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  7. Sunny Simple LifeFebruary 2, 2011 at 1:35 PM

    I am truly sorry for your loss. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Take Care.
    Elaine

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  8. Ceekay-THINKIN of HOMEFebruary 2, 2011 at 1:36 PM

    I am so sorry for your family's loss.

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  9. Into VintageFebruary 2, 2011 at 1:39 PM

    I think you just did a perfect job of letting us know how much you loved & appreciated him. My thoughts are with you & your family, Janelle.

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  10. AmandaFebruary 2, 2011 at 1:42 PM

    I feel for you, hes sounds such a well loved man. God bless....

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  11. Robin@DecoratingTennisGirlFebruary 2, 2011 at 1:43 PM

    Sweet Bee,
    So sorry for your loss. What a lovely tribute.

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  12. DebFebruary 2, 2011 at 1:46 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss! He sounds like a wonderful man who will be truly missed.

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  13. ~Tonja~February 2, 2011 at 2:04 PM

    So sorry to hear of your loss....prayers are with you and your family...
    Have a Blessed day
    Tonja

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  14. CindyFebruary 2, 2011 at 2:07 PM

    Janelle what heartache you and your family must be going thru right now. Life is so hard to explain much less understand sometimes. What a blessing to know of his love for Jesus!!This always gives me so much comfort when times like this happen.
    I will be praying for your sweet family and for his.

    A big hug and a kiss on the cheek from Cindy Rick-Rack and Gingham

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  15. Linda @ A La CarteFebruary 2, 2011 at 2:12 PM

    I am so sorry for you loss. I can tell by your words the love you have for him and the great impact he has had on your family. You, your Husband and your whole family are in my prayers.

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  16. acorn hollowFebruary 2, 2011 at 2:26 PM

    I am so sorry for you and your family. the only comfort is that his pain is gone.
    blessing to your family
    Cathy

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  17. FourSistersInACottageFebruary 2, 2011 at 2:29 PM

    So sorry for your loss, please know that he is no longer hurting. Find comfort in that if nothing else.
    He will never be gone as long as you have those precious memories of him.
    Big Hugs to you and your hubby, Amy (Mom to the Four Sisters)

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  18. SylviaFebruary 2, 2011 at 2:32 PM

    So sorry for your lost .., but as long as all memories are still there he lives on - in the hearts of everyone he has touched ...

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  19. PeggyRFebruary 2, 2011 at 2:32 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss! Prayers are headed your way!

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  20. My Grama's SoulFebruary 2, 2011 at 2:44 PM

    Oh sweet lady....so sorry for your loss of this wonderful person in your life. I would have liked to have know this wonderful man.

    Xo

    Jo

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  21. ClaudiaFebruary 2, 2011 at 2:59 PM

    So very sorry for your loss. He sounds like he was a wonderful man and a wonderful older brother to your husband.

    xo
    Claudia

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  22. SusanFebruary 2, 2011 at 3:59 PM

    It sounds like your brother in law was an awesome man!! I am so sorry about your loss! Hugs

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  23. Lora @ my blessed lifeFebruary 2, 2011 at 4:15 PM

    So sorry to hear that. Prayers and thoughts for you family.

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  24. AlyssaFebruary 2, 2011 at 5:01 PM

    He sounds like a wonderful man. So sorry to hear of his passing. I'm sure he is playing guitar for all;) Listen for it... I bet you'll hear him strumming. My thoughts and prayers are with you ;)Alyssa of Boston Bee

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  25. Cherry ChickFebruary 2, 2011 at 5:12 PM

    Janelle,
    There are no words to take away the pain. I'm trying to picture the expression on his face that always cracked you up. You will always remember that and it will make you smile in time. You will smile again and take care of your husband and family who have lost someone so special to all of you.
    Comforting hugs to you all...Vicki

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  26. Sandy aka Doris the GreatFebruary 2, 2011 at 6:19 PM

    So sorry for your loss. What wonderful memories you have of him.

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  27. JaneFebruary 2, 2011 at 6:31 PM

    Sending you and your hubby a big hug! I do know how hard it is...but keeping those memories alive in your heart is the best thing........take care of yourselves.

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  28. UnknownFebruary 2, 2011 at 6:51 PM

    dearest Bee family, I am sorry to hear of your loss, there are no words to express when one loses someone so close to you, but just knowing that you have people who care out there praying hopefully will be of some comfort. Sounds like he will always be remembered and never forgotten as a special family member. May your hearts mend in time. Much love and prayers extended for you and yours, Mica

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  29. LisaFebruary 2, 2011 at 7:22 PM

    Hugs and prayers for you all. It is never an easy time but it is good you remember the great parts of him and that will live on.
    Hugs, Lisa

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  30. BettyFebruary 2, 2011 at 7:59 PM

    I'm so sorry Janelle.

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  31. UnknownFebruary 2, 2011 at 8:23 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss, family members are always the hardest to let go, Blessings and prayers, xoxo Marilou

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  32. BeansieleighFebruary 2, 2011 at 9:15 PM

    I am so sorry to hear this sad news. My heart goes out to you and your family, and may God comfort all of you in the days ahead. ((hugs)) ~tina

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  33. Nana's Fun StuffFebruary 2, 2011 at 9:16 PM

    I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I know it's very hard and don't worry about trying to tell everyone how wonderful he is, we can easily tell he was a very special and loved person in your life. What will bring you through it is remember the things that made you laugh, things you enjoyed when you were with him and he will forever be in your heart. Big hugs and my prayers are with you during this time.

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  34. UnknownFebruary 2, 2011 at 9:23 PM

    I am also sorry to hear you have lost such a special family member, please know you are in my thoughts and prayers....Sandy

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  35. AnnFebruary 2, 2011 at 11:53 PM

    Oh Sweet Bee, you have shown your brother-in-law such a wonderful tribute in your posting.
    I have and will continue to pray for your family. May God give you each comfort, peace and many, many happy memories now and always.
    Fondly,
    Ann
    @
    The Tattered Tassel

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  36. Angela @ Cottage MagpieFebruary 3, 2011 at 2:39 AM

    Hugs and prayers for you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss. Please, do, tell us about him -- we would all love to hear.
    XOXO,
    ~Angela~

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  37. Simply DebbieFebruary 3, 2011 at 3:46 AM

    Dear Sweet Bee,
    I am very sorry over your Sweet Brother (in law) stepping over into the arms of our Loving Saviour, Jesus Christ.
    It is sooo very painful for those of us left behind.
    You so beautifully expressed the Tribute to him that we can see his face and him entertaining the family through music from his guitar and song of laughter with a family that loved/loves him and there will always be a place at the table for him.
    I am praying for you, your husband, and family.
    Sweet Hugs my friend
    You are surrounded by friends who wish we could spare you of those tears.
    Simply Debbie

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  38. AnonymousFebruary 3, 2011 at 6:11 AM

    Those memories are what keep him with you. And there isn't anyone that can take that away from you. Enjoy the memories. Mourn and know he is in a better place. Sympathies to you and your family.

    Amy B

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  39. CoraFebruary 3, 2011 at 8:01 AM

    So sorry to hear about your loss...heaven should be rejoicing with a man like that!! Keep his memories alive in your hearts.
    Blessings~

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  40. LisaFebruary 3, 2011 at 8:36 AM

    I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your Brother in law. Know that your family will be in my prayers.

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  41. Simply ShelleyFebruary 3, 2011 at 8:46 AM

    So sorry for your loss...it sounds like he was a wonderful man who made a difference in the lives of those around him...I am sure he is reaping many rewards around God's throne....even when we know where our loved ones are and who's almighty presence they are in...it is still so very hard to say goodbye and not feel that sting of a great loss of love and companionship....I am praying all who grieve this loved one will be comforted and granted much peace in the name of Jesus....blessings

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  42. CHERIFebruary 3, 2011 at 2:22 PM

    I am so very sorry for the loss of your beloved brother-in-law. He sounds like a wonderful person. I know all of you will miss him, but thankfully you can be comforted by the fact that he loved his Lord and now rests painless in His arms.

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  43. BearShe CottageFebruary 3, 2011 at 3:39 PM

    Sorry to hear this news. Prayers are with you in blogland.

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  44. StephanieFebruary 3, 2011 at 5:59 PM

    Janelle, I'm so sorry to hear about your brother-in-law. He sounds like he was a very dear man, and he was as lucky to have been cherished by you and your family as you all were to know him. You and your family will be in my prayers tonight. ~Stephanie from Buttermilk Hill

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  45. KathyFebruary 3, 2011 at 9:15 PM

    So sorry to hear about your loss. I know you all are missing him something fierce, and I will keep you in my prayers.

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  46. AnonymousFebruary 3, 2011 at 9:33 PM

    So very sorry to hear of your loss. Pray you will feel God's love and comfort during this time.

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  47. SusanneFebruary 3, 2011 at 9:42 PM

    The price for being human is to suffer when we loose someone we love. I don't think we ever get over it, sadly we just learn to live without them. I like to think that loved ones are standing at Heaven's gate waiting for us, and we will all be together again without pain and suffering. God Bless You during this time.

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  48. StaceyFebruary 4, 2011 at 12:23 PM

    I am so sorry for your loss. Thinking of your and your family.

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  49. JudyFebruary 4, 2011 at 2:47 PM

    So sorry for your loss. I think you showed how much you cared for him by writing about him. Take care. Peace.

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  50. Verde FarmFebruary 4, 2011 at 7:08 PM

    I am so sorry about your brother in-law. It is so hard to lose loved ones and it sounds like he was a big part of the family. My husband plays the guitar and he is the one who does our family sing-a-longs. How sad to lose that. Praying for your family.
    Amy

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  51. D. Jean QuarlesFebruary 5, 2011 at 6:51 PM

    So sorry for your loss. You and your husband are in my thoughts.

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  52. JacobaFebruary 6, 2011 at 3:19 AM

    Dear Sweet Bee,
    Your words are so warm about your brother in law. We have a poem here that goes a little bit like this: tell it to the wind, tell it to the mountains, but no one will know how much we loved you. And this is the case with your brother in law, no one will know how much you all loved him. But he will stay part of you forever, his life touched yours in a wonderful way. The dialogue has stopped, but he will be there - you will notice this in time.
    The utter silence will be so difficult. Give Worker Bee a big hug from me.
    Stay close and together, all you Bees overthere.
    Love,
    Jacoba

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  53. lesapeamusings.blogspotFebruary 6, 2011 at 12:45 PM

    Hello, This is my first time to your blog. I wish your entire family all of God's comfort at this time. Take care and God bless you.

    Lisa @ Lesapea xx

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  54. KathyFebruary 8, 2011 at 6:57 AM

    Dearest Friend,
    I truly know this is a bitter-sweet time having so many family members to have gone on before me to Heaven. But, that's the wonderful thing - knowing that one day our faith is turned to sight - I envision those I love in Jesus' presence and a continuous smile! I truly miss those I love - wish I could talk to them, hug them - hear them say my name - but that will happen some day soon. Since, I have dug my feet deep into my faith and determined to make my life count for Jesus - he has kept me singing (well in my heart - don't have a good voice :) )
    My youngest daughter plays the guitar and I know the joy and fellowship listening to her and hearing she and my husband sing-along - one day we won't have to say good-bye and we all will sing!
    Wish I could hug you all - but, will ask the LORD to do it for me!
    God Bless,
    Kathy

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  55. UnknownFebruary 12, 2011 at 10:51 AM

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

    Blessings
    ~Liz

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